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Paths Uncharted.
A collaborative blog by Divergent Path Wellness
exploring mental health in context, centering neurodivergent and queer experiences, and undermining prescriptive paths
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Mental Health & Self-Care Practices
Mental health doesn't exist in a vacuum. These posts explore emotional well-being, self-care, and therapy tools through a lens that honors the impact of systems, culture, and lived experience. Rooted in evidence-based mental health practice, these reflections offer support for executive function, navigating distress, building resilience, and living in alignment with your values - especially in uncertain and challenging times.


BYO (bring-your-own) fidgets: Some considerations as you get ready for virtual therapy
These suggestions can help ensure that you feel safe and supported in virtual therapy...

Sarah Lawson MSW
Jun 196 min read


Waiting for Your Parent to Finally Be the Adult? Attachment Wounds and Parentification in Adulthood
If you're an adult who's long felt you had to be responsible for your parents feelings... If your parent tends to not apologize when they've acted cruelly, called you "too sensitive" and ignored your feelings... all the while seeming to expect you to treat them as though they were stable and safe. You should know: Healthy attachment is not automatic, and it is not guaranteed by biology. Children with emotionally intelligent parents have a privilege that is often not talked a

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jun 134 min read


On the Outside Looking In – On Trauma, Diversity, Neurodivergence and Belonging
Some of the hardest moments in life aren’t about what’s happening around us, but what’s happening inside of us when we believe we don’t belong. Exclusion—whether explicit or subtle, social or internalized—can leave deep marks on mental health and relationships. To explore this, let’s look at three people who might never meet, but who each know what it feels like to be on the outside looking in. Three Experiences of Difference A Bisexual Mom at the Playground She pushes her ch

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jun 66 min read


How to Find an Affirming Therapist: What Questions to Ask in a Consultation
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming. If you’re LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, living with chronic illness, deconstructing from a...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
May 12 min read


Embracing Rejection: The Power of Letting Go
Rejection stings. It can feel like a door slammed in your face, or worse, like proof that something about you is unworthy. For LGBTQIA+...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Apr 142 min read


You Weren’t Too Sensitive. You Were a Kid With Undiagnosed ADHD.
For parents raised as girls who recognize themselves in their child’s diagnosis If you are a human who was born with a uterus, perhaps you noticed somewhere around middle school that the other kids seemed to know social rules that you didn’t. Maybe reading text for class was boring and stupid and you had to reread the same paragraph five times and still didn’t understand what it was saying. Perhaps other people told you, not infrequently, that you were “sensitive,” and that y

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Mar 246 min read


Better Living Through Chemicals? Informed Decision-Making and Your Body
Substances are part of human history. People use them to connect, to cope, to celebrate, to spark creativity, to escape, or simply to...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Mar 144 min read


The Pressure To Be Jolly: Coping With Holiday Stress
The holidays are often painted as a season of joy — twinkling lights, cozy traditions, picture-perfect family gatherings. But for many...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Dec 23, 20252 min read


Why Is It So Hard to Find an Affirming Therapist Who Accepts My Insurance?
If you’ve ever searched for an in-network therapist who truly “gets it”—someone inclusive, LGBTQ-affirming, neurodivergent-friendly, and...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Dec 10, 20256 min read


When Things End: Opening Your Window of Tolerance to Navigate Change
Change can bring about feelings of anxiety, anger, or fear, the potential for regret and sadness. Learn about your window of tolerance and explore tips for navigating change with emotional regulation.

Sarah Lawson MSW
Aug 1, 20254 min read


When you're caught in the whirlpool: Creative expression & self-reflection for emotional regulation
It’s summertime in Virginia which means it’s swimming season. However, this summer also continues to heat up politically, and the image that comes to mind may be more raging whirlpool than cooling oasis. Discover how creative expression can help support self-reflection and emotional regulation.

Sarah Lawson MSW
Jul 4, 20254 min read


Mental Health Support for Queer and Neurodivergent People: Self-Compassion, Community, and Care in Uncertain Times
In a world that often feels like it’s teetering on the edge—politically, economically, environmentally—it’s hard to know how to keep...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jun 27, 20255 min read


How to Find Your Way: Centering Values During Times of Unrest
Amidst times of unrest, clarifying your values can help you live the life you want to live.

Sarah Lawson MSW
Jun 20, 20254 min read


Will I Ever Stop Feeling Anxious?
When you're feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, slowing down and changing your relationship to thoughts and feelings can help.

Sarah Lawson MSW
Jun 6, 20255 min read


When You’re Trying Not to Feel
When things get overwhelming and you're looking for ways to feel nothing, practicing experiential acceptance can help.

Sarah Lawson MSW
May 23, 20254 min read


Like a Song Stuck in Your Head: Make Peace with Intrusive Thoughts
We’ve all experienced it—going about our day when suddenly, a song hijacks our brain. It might be an upbeat jingle or a barely noticed...

Mathew Christensen MSW
May 17, 20255 min read


WALL-E and Lessons on Mindfulness
Every single one of us exists with an autopilot—an subconscious, evolutionary form of thinking or decision making that exists to preserve...

Ames Gersten MSW
May 13, 20254 min read


The Fishbowl Game for Executive Function
This is one of my favorite ideas from The Willpower Instinct , which is a treasure trove of executive function strategies. I’ve played it...

Thomas Harper LMSW
Apr 21, 20254 min read


Uncomfortable With Money? Let's Talk About It.
As Instagram influencers and financial experts flood our feeds, calling for us to freeze our credit scores, download our student loan...

Ames Gersten MSW
Mar 27, 20256 min read


H5N1 & Anxiety: When You Need More Than Cute Animal Videos
Learn a new mindfulness technique to help you navigate anxiety and other difficult feelings amidst concerns about H5N1 & public health

Sarah Lawson MSW
Feb 28, 20254 min read
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