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Paths Uncharted.
A collaborative blog by Divergent Path Wellness
exploring mental health in context, centering neurodivergent and queer experiences, and undermining prescriptive paths
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Write With Us: Contribute to the Paths Uncharted Blog.
In Paths Uncharted , we’re exploring mental health in context—through lenses that are lived, layered, and sometimes unexpected. We write...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jul 253 min read


Caught Between Conscience and Compulsion - Understanding Scrupulosity, OCD, and Religious Trauma
by Mx. Lauren Johnson What if your moral compass— once a source of comfort and guidance— has become a relentless source of fear, shame,...
Lauren Johnson LPC
6 days ago7 min read


Self-Advocacy at Work: Confronting Queer Erasure in Professional Spaces
You deserve to be all of who you are—even at work. In many workplaces, professionalism is quietly coded: not too loud, not too soft, not...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Sep 195 min read


The Art Of The Pivot: Why What Works For Politicians Can Derail Your Relationship
In politics, the “pivot” is a skill. A candidate is asked a tough question, and instead of answering it directly, they pivot to what...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Sep 93 min read


Affirming Your Queer Partner in a Hetero-Presenting Relationship
Love doesn’t always look how people expect—and that’s okay. If you're in a relationship that the world reads as heterosexual, but your...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Sep 55 min read


The Poor Kid Game: On Vulnerability and Unidentified Autism
A childhood board game revealed hidden struggles with autism. Lara shares her story of growing up undiagnosed and finding meaning in late discovery.
Lara Schaeffer
Aug 298 min read


New Year, New You?
A Note on Gender Expression, Code-Switching, and Returning to School Every August, the same messaging pops up like clockwork: “New year,...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Aug 225 min read


Secular Therapy as a Bridge
Meeting Religious Trauma Survivors Where They Are at in Early Recovery “Why aren’t you singing?” a man asked me, swaying with ease to the...
Kit Morgan LCSW
Aug 154 min read


Safety, Solidarity, and Survival in Charlottesville: What Community Healing Means Now
Charlottesville still feels the impact of August 12. This reflection explores how trauma lives in our bodies and communities—and how healing begins with accountability, collective care, and liberation-oriented support.
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Aug 86 min read


When Things End: Opening Your Window of Tolerance to Navigate Change
Change can bring about feelings of anxiety, anger, or fear, the potential for regret and sadness. Learn about your window of tolerance and explore tips for navigating change with emotional regulation.
Sarah Lawson MSW
Aug 14 min read


Understanding Complex Trauma: How It Impacts the Nervous System and How Therapy Can Help
Complex trauma is a term that’s gaining more recognition in both clinical settings and everyday conversations about mental health. For...
Hannah Dickey MSW, LMSW
Jul 254 min read


Rest Is Resistance: Reclaiming Summer and Navigating Burnout as a Neurodivergent Queer Person
Feeling burned out by summer's heat, noise, and social expectations? This post explores sensory overload, internalized productivity shame, and how rest can be a radical act—especially for neurodivergent queer folks.
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jul 256 min read


Allowing Space for Grief
Whether it’s the personal loss of a beloved person or other animal, or the larger-scale loss felt as we experience the polycrisis of climate change, pandemics, and genocide, learning to accept the grief that we experience and carry with us as individuals and communities can be transformational.
Sarah Lawson MSW
Jul 183 min read


“Am I Bad at Being an Adult?”
If you’ve ever looked around and thought, “Everyone else seems to have this whole adulthood thing figured out—what’s wrong with me?” — you’re not alone.
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jul 119 min read


When you're caught in the whirlpool: Creative expression & self-reflection for emotional regulation
It’s summertime in Virginia which means it’s swimming season. However, this summer also continues to heat up politically, and the image that comes to mind may be more raging whirlpool than cooling oasis. Discover how creative expression can help support self-reflection and emotional regulation.
Sarah Lawson MSW
Jul 44 min read


Mental Health Support for Queer and Neurodivergent People: Self-Compassion, Community, and Care in Uncertain Times
In a world that often feels like it’s teetering on the edge—politically, economically, environmentally—it’s hard to know how to keep...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jun 275 min read


How to Find Your Way: Centering Values During Times of Unrest
Amidst times of unrest, clarifying your values can help you live the life you want to live.
Sarah Lawson MSW
Jun 204 min read


Unlearning Religious Shame as a Queer Person: You Were Never the Problem
For LGBTQIA+ folks raised in rigid or rejecting faith traditions, healing can start with the radical idea that there was nothing wrong...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jun 137 min read


“Am I Allowed to Want This?”: Sex, Religious Trauma, and the Lingering Weight of Shame
Religious trauma doesn’t end when you leave the church. It lingers in the body—in the bedroom—in the questions you’re afraid to ask. But...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jun 135 min read


Will I Ever Stop Feeling Anxious?
When you're feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, slowing down and changing your relationship to thoughts and feelings can help.
Sarah Lawson MSW
Jun 65 min read
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