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A collaborative blog by Divergent Path Wellness
exploring mental health in context, centering neurodivergent and queer experiences, and undermining prescriptive paths
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Write With Us: Contribute to the Paths Uncharted Blog.
In Paths Uncharted , we’re exploring mental health in context—through lenses that are lived, layered, and sometimes unexpected. We write...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jul 25, 20253 min read


The Pressure To Be Jolly: Coping With Holiday Stress
The holidays are often painted as a season of joy — twinkling lights, cozy traditions, picture-perfect family gatherings. But for many...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Dec 23, 20252 min read


Why Is It So Hard to Find an Affirming Therapist Who Accepts My Insurance?
If you’ve ever searched for an in-network therapist who truly “gets it”—someone inclusive, LGBTQ-affirming, neurodivergent-friendly, and...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Dec 10, 20256 min read


Grief during the holidays: Creative strategies to support you
The holiday season can be full of grief triggers, especially if you’re Covid-conscious, queer, trans, neurodivergent, or living with chronic illness or chronic pain. Discover creative strategies and tools to support you in making space for grief during the holidays...

Sarah Lawson MSW
Dec 4, 20254 min read


10 Meaningful Gifts to Deepen Connection with Your Partner
Holiday or not, the best gifts remind your partner they’re accepted, valued, and loved. These ideas go beyond consumerism, tying into...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Nov 26, 20253 min read


When Friends and Family Don’t Welcome Your Authenticity
Navigating Rejection, Setting Boundaries, and Reclaiming Your Right to Be Fully You For many queer, neurodivergent, or otherwise...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Nov 13, 20254 min read


How To Unmask Safely: What To Do When Hiding Who You Are Becomes Habit
An honest reflection on safety, identity, and cultivating authenticity On Halloween, we put on masks and costumes for fun — to try on...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Oct 29, 20255 min read


Queering the Holidays: Create Traditions You Actually Want to Celebrate
A guide for LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent folks to plan ahead, set boundaries, and reclaim the season with intention—not obligation The...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Oct 17, 20254 min read


This Is Not My Beautiful Life: Relationship Guidance for When You’re Asking Yourself, “How Did I Get Here?”
For late-identified queer, neurodivergent, deconstructing humans If you’ve ever looked around your life—your home, your relationship,...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Oct 3, 20256 min read


Caught Between Conscience and Compulsion - Understanding Scrupulosity, OCD, and Religious Trauma
by Mx. Lauren Johnson What if your moral compass— once a source of comfort and guidance— has become a relentless source of fear, shame,...

Lauren Johnson LPC
Sep 24, 20257 min read


Self-Advocacy at Work: Confronting Queer Erasure in Professional Spaces
You deserve to be all of who you are—even at work. In many workplaces, professionalism is quietly coded: not too loud, not too soft, not...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Sep 19, 20255 min read


The Art Of The Pivot: Why What Works For Politicians Can Derail Your Relationship
In politics, the “pivot” is a skill. A candidate is asked a tough question, and instead of answering it directly, they pivot to what...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Sep 9, 20253 min read


Affirming Your Queer Partner in a Hetero-Presenting Relationship
Love doesn’t always look how people expect—and that’s okay. If you're in a relationship that the world reads as heterosexual, but your...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Sep 5, 20255 min read


The Poor Kid Game: On Vulnerability and Unidentified Autism
A childhood board game revealed hidden struggles with autism. Lara shares her story of growing up undiagnosed and finding meaning in late discovery.

Lara Schaeffer
Aug 29, 20258 min read


New Year, New You?
A Note on Gender Expression, Code-Switching, and Returning to School Every August, the same messaging pops up like clockwork: “New year,...

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Aug 22, 20255 min read


Secular Therapy as a Bridge
Meeting Religious Trauma Survivors Where They Are at in Early Recovery “Why aren’t you singing?” a man asked me, swaying with ease to the...

Kit Morgan LCSW
Aug 15, 20254 min read


Safety, Solidarity, and Survival in Charlottesville: What Community Healing Means Now
Charlottesville still feels the impact of August 12. This reflection explores how trauma lives in our bodies and communities—and how healing begins with accountability, collective care, and liberation-oriented support.

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Aug 8, 20256 min read


When Things End: Opening Your Window of Tolerance to Navigate Change
Change can bring about feelings of anxiety, anger, or fear, the potential for regret and sadness. Learn about your window of tolerance and explore tips for navigating change with emotional regulation.

Sarah Lawson MSW
Aug 1, 20254 min read


Understanding Complex Trauma: How It Impacts the Nervous System and How Therapy Can Help
Complex trauma is a term that’s gaining more recognition in both clinical settings and everyday conversations about mental health. For...

Hannah Dickey MSW, LMSW
Jul 25, 20254 min read


Rest Is Resistance: Reclaiming Summer and Navigating Burnout as a Neurodivergent Queer Person
Feeling burned out by summer's heat, noise, and social expectations? This post explores sensory overload, internalized productivity shame, and how rest can be a radical act—especially for neurodivergent queer folks.

Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jul 25, 20256 min read
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