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A collaborative blog by Divergent Path Wellness
exploring mental health in context, centering neurodivergent and queer experiences, and undermining prescriptive paths
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Write With Us: Contribute to the Paths Uncharted Blog.
In Paths Uncharted , we’re exploring mental health in context—through lenses that are lived, layered, and sometimes unexpected. We write...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jul 253 min read


Safety, Solidarity, and Survival in Charlottesville: What Community Healing Means Now
Charlottesville still feels the impact of August 12. This reflection explores how trauma lives in our bodies and communities—and how healing begins with accountability, collective care, and liberation-oriented support.
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
2 days ago6 min read


When Things End: Opening Your Window of Tolerance to Navigate Change
Change can bring about feelings of anxiety, anger, or fear, the potential for regret and sadness. Learn about your window of tolerance and explore tips for navigating change with emotional regulation.
Sarah Lawson, Clinical MSW Intern
Aug 14 min read


Understanding Complex Trauma: How It Impacts the Nervous System and How Therapy Can Help
Complex trauma is a term that’s gaining more recognition in both clinical settings and everyday conversations about mental health. For...
Hannah Dickey MSW, LMSW
Jul 254 min read


Rest Is Resistance: Reclaiming Summer and Navigating Burnout as a Neurodivergent Queer Person
Feeling burned out by summer's heat, noise, and social expectations? This post explores sensory overload, internalized productivity shame, and how rest can be a radical act—especially for neurodivergent queer folks.
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jul 256 min read


Allowing Space for Grief
Whether it’s the personal loss of a beloved person or other animal, or the larger-scale loss felt as we experience the polycrisis of climate change, pandemics, and genocide, learning to accept the grief that we experience and carry with us as individuals and communities can be transformational.
Sarah Lawson, Clinical MSW Intern
Jul 183 min read


“Am I Bad at Being an Adult?”
If you’ve ever looked around and thought, “Everyone else seems to have this whole adulthood thing figured out—what’s wrong with me?” — you’re not alone.
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jul 119 min read


When you're caught in the whirlpool: Creative expression & self-reflection for emotional regulation
It’s summertime in Virginia which means it’s swimming season. However, this summer also continues to heat up politically, and the image that comes to mind may be more raging whirlpool than cooling oasis. Discover how creative expression can help support self-reflection and emotional regulation.
Sarah Lawson, Clinical MSW Intern
Jul 44 min read


Mental Health Support for Queer and Neurodivergent People: Self-Compassion, Community, and Care in Uncertain Times
In a world that often feels like it’s teetering on the edge—politically, economically, environmentally—it’s hard to know how to keep...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jun 275 min read


How to Find Your Way: Centering Values During Times of Unrest
Amidst times of unrest, clarifying your values can help you live the life you want to live.
Sarah Lawson, Clinical MSW Intern
Jun 204 min read


Unlearning Religious Shame as a Queer Person: You Were Never the Problem
For LGBTQIA+ folks raised in rigid or rejecting faith traditions, healing can start with the radical idea that there was nothing wrong...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jun 137 min read


“Am I Allowed to Want This?”: Sex, Religious Trauma, and the Lingering Weight of Shame
Religious trauma doesn’t end when you leave the church. It lingers in the body—in the bedroom—in the questions you’re afraid to ask. But...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Jun 135 min read


Will I Ever Stop Feeling Anxious?
When you're feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, slowing down and changing your relationship to thoughts and feelings can help.
Sarah Lawson, Clinical MSW Intern
Jun 65 min read


Why Inclusive Therapy Matters: A Queer, Neurodivergent Reflection for Mental Health Awareness Month
By Helen Dempsey-Henofer, LCSW ADHD-CCSP Growing Up Queer and Neurodivergent in Rural Virginia I was a confused, socially awkward kid who...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
May 305 min read


When You’re Trying Not to Feel
When things get overwhelming and you're looking for ways to feel nothing, practicing experiential acceptance can help.
Sarah Lawson, Clinical MSW Intern
May 234 min read


Should I Go No Contact?
How to Decide Whether to End Contact with a Friend or Family Member Deciding to go no contact with a friend or family member is a deeply...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
May 195 min read


Like a Song Stuck in Your Head: Make Peace with Intrusive Thoughts
We’ve all experienced it—going about our day when suddenly, a song hijacks our brain. It might be an upbeat jingle or a barely noticed...
Mathew Christensen MSW
May 175 min read


WALL-E and Lessons on Mindfulness
Every single one of us exists with an autopilot—an subconscious, evolutionary form of thinking or decision making that exists to preserve...
Ames Gersten MSW
May 134 min read


Floating in the Void: Queer, Neurodivergent & Facing Existential Dread
If you’re queer, neurodivergent, and alive right now, chances are you’ve felt it — the hollow ache in your chest when the world feels...
Hannah Dickey MSW, LMSW
May 23 min read


Navigating Holiday Grief After Leaving High-Demand Religion
Holidays, whether those that get a lot of mainstream fanfare or those that are more a part of lesser-know cultural tradition, can be a...
Helen Dempsey-Henofer LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
Apr 256 min read
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